Feb
11
2008
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Written by Will
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Monday, 11 February 2008 |
As I provide the tools of courtship to some of my clients, I realize how powerful some of this stuff can be in the wrong hands. Essentially, I am providing to them the power to wield the cupid's arrow. The ability to seduce, attract, and maintain a lasting relationship for however long they want. It's quite amazing and scary at the same time. Any and every girl can be seduced. Why? They are emotional. So naturally, they are reactive. Some consider it to be manipulative. I don't. It's simply having a keen sense of how to react to varying emotional states. But before you decide to use what you learn, make certain that this is what you truly desire.
Rules of the Game by N. Strauss
Rule 1: Attraction is NOT a Choice
Rule 2: One Broken Link Destroys the Chain
Rule 3: Game is a Borderless State
Rule 4: Know the Terrain before taking the Journey
Rule 5: What you Perceive is Who You Are
Rule 6: Expect the Best, Prepare for the Worst
Rule 7: Whatever's in the Way is the Way
Rule 8: Emotions are Reason Enough
Rule 9: Love is a Wave, Trust is the Water
Rule 10: The Comfort Zone is Enemy Territory
Rule 11: No Man Wins the Game Alone
"Like air bubbles trapped in cement, the decisions we make in a moment haunt us for the rest of our lives."
- N. Strauss |
Feb
11
2008
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Written by Will
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Monday, 11 February 2008 |
On a night out with his girlfriend and friends, Paul is introduced to a girl who seems very familiar to him. Casually and completely on a platonic basis, he inquires about her past and where she had grown up. Interestingly enough, they went to the same high school and then really start to kick it off; talking about past teachers and the biggest gossip of their sophomore year. Paul's girlfriend notices them smiling and breaks in to rudely introduce herself as his girlfriend and takes him away. She's appalled. In fact, she slaps Paul as hard as she could and tells him to fuck off as she goes to intimately dance with some desparate looking dudes on the dance floor. Paul's quite confused and doesn't know what to do. He apologizes to his girlfriend and tells her he will never talk to that girl ever again. Seriously?! Yeah, there are girlfriends like that.
Firstly, it's important to appreciate femininity. They are emotional and will act upon their emotions. They may say or do some really irrational things based on their emotions. Stay steady through the storm. Be non-reactive to bad behavior. Don't tolerate it though. Address it calmly when they are in a more receptive state. Otherwise, it's like talking to a brick wall. This itself is a test on your manhood to see how well you can handle a girl. When the timing is right, be sure to award good behavior by providing sincere genuine compliments to show your appreciation. This is very important, as it will show that you have standards in people. And at the same time, it will subconsciously communicate to her a way of getting your positive attention. If you don't like something about her, it's impossible to change her. So don't bother trying to change someone. But, it is possible for them to have a change of heart. Over time and on their own self-realization. We can only hope. |
Jan
11
2008
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Video: Rules of Seduction |
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Written by Will
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Friday, 11 January 2008 |
Documentary on the Seduction / Pickup Artist Community in the U.K.
It's easy to get lost in the game. Prioritize your life. |
Dec
11
2007
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Written by Will
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Tuesday, 11 December 2007 |
Within us all, there is a competitive force that drives us towards our ultimate survival. It's nature at work. Without it, our desire and motivation for living would be non-existent. It's what makes us tick. And as I had previously mentioned, the intensity of our determinations is what separates us from one another. Whether it is possessions, relationships, skillsets, and/or a certain lifestyle - everyone has end goals.
As I matured through adolescence, my primary mode of competition was through games. Any game I was ever serious about, I strived to become the best. The true elite. Without this end goal, I found no reason to play. I would practice, specialize, and perfect what I was most capable of. Over time, as I faced my limitations.. I became envious of those who were of higher caliber. Insatiable with second-best accomplishments, I felt inadequate.
But, what truly separates the elite from the average player? Why should I feel inadequate? Let's be real here. It's the time commitment. Regardless of how much of a seasoned of player I may be, I will never be able to defeat someone who has dedicated their life or a greater majority of it towards that end goal. They are simply more committed.
Value is a very dynamic term. It changes based on perspective. It's entirely based on perception. While there are universal traits that are deemed valuable by society, there are also specific traits that are considered valuable based on individual preference. Universal traits are traits you can work on and develop, such as: ambition, charisma, confidence, health, wealth, etc. And specific traits are usually mindsets and specific interests that can easily be adopted if necessary.
The reason why someone could ever believe they are of low value (or inadequate) is because they compare themselves to their ideal self. Or something about themselves they would rather change. First, you must accept the fact that you cannot become the best at everything. Acknowledge your limitations and weaknesses. Redefine your goals. Then strengthen your core competencies.
"A prince need not possess princely qualities.
He merely needs the appearance of princely qualities." - Machiavelli
It is only natural to have diminishing returns when perfecting a single trait..
Maintaining variability when developing yourself will produce greater results. |
Nov
22
2007
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Written by Will
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Thursday, 22 November 2007 |
I prefer girls who are confident and have a game of their own. They can carry themselves without the need or addictive desire for external validation. They got their shit together. Yes, confidence is driven by both internal and external factors. But, internalized self-assurance is undoubtedly the stronger of the two. Your ego is a societal construct from external feedback, and should not be relied upon as a primary source of confidence. It should only be there to compliment you. As you develop yourself by gaining certainty of your capabilities and ease with the unknown, your humble self-esteem is what will truly empower you.
A girl of high self-confidence is best to be engaged directly. The direct approach uses techniques which are congruent with displaying genuine interests, persisting with absolute certainty, and coming from a position of authority. With uniform levels of confidence, value will be naturally and mutually created. The indirect approach uses techniques congruent with displaying false disinterest, allowing the girl to seek validation from you, and manipulating the simple laws of attraction. This imbalance of confidence causes one to supplicate for external validation, thus preventing any real value from being created. If she is truly internally validated, she will care less to try and impress you.
It's difficult to build a trusting relationship with the absence of sincerity. So as always, keep things genuine.
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