May
08
2009
| Jealousy, an Unattractive Trait |
| Written by Will | |||||
| Friday, 08 May 2009 | |||||
 Beyond physical allure, what character traits do we generally look for in a girl? She should be: Fun. Playful. Adventurous. Sexually adventurous. Sensual. Affectionate. Caring. Loyal. Responsible. Decisive. Well-mannered. Cultured. Fashionable. Sophisticated. Confident. Positive. Independent. Non-possessive. Non-jealous. Non-judgmental. Open-minded. Understanding. Etc. All fantastic traits which make for a great life partner. One who you could most definitely enjoy traveling the world with. Now, let's say that you do come across a girl with most of the attractive characteristics I've illustrated above.. Would you be able to handle her? With all the right things going on for your girl, she will naturally draw the attention of other people. Yes, even other dudes! omgnoway Why? How come?! She's attractive; so it's inevitable. End of story. No need for further elaboration there. You always wanted that super sexy cool girl, right? Well, you got her. Now it's time for you to deal with some of the bullshit that comes with having an attractive partner. The more comfortable you are with this reality, the more attractive you will be to her. Consider it as a test of your strength as a man! So, let's go over some of the basics of challenges - Past Relationships Innocence is an unachievable idealism that will bring your world into a downward spiraling plunge if you continue to look for it. The idea that such a girl with an untainted heart can exist is so paradoxically rare; you will only find them in those sappy romance movies. Unless her parents hid her well inside a basement while taking at-home schooling, any attractive girl is bound to have been romantically involved some way or another. It's beneficial for both of you to have had past relationships. Life experiences that bring you closer to what you truly desire. Sexual History A girl's sexual history is arbitrary. Can you blame her for wanting to express her sexuality? How about you? How many times in your adolescence did you want to fuck some random girl you barely even knew? You were horny. And so are girls. Whether she was with some scroungy dork who made sex feel like a chore or the star quarterback who gave her mind-blowing orgasms; you are now the man of the hour. No time for self-doubt. With the right amount of Dominance, Emotion, Variety, and Immersion - you will rock her world to a whole new level! Girls Nights Out Not all relationships work out in success. Unlike guys, girls can't really go out on their own. It's a dangerous world out there. So they will form their little packs and head out on their "Girls Night Outs" to hook up their single friends. There's really nothing to be worried about here. If you've been socializing with her friends and being that awesome guy.. They will serve to be the most effective cockblocks I've ever seen; working in your favor! Keep that in mind next time you refuse to hang out with her friends just so you can stay at home and play your video games. The Better Looking, Wealthier Guy Stepping out of his Ferrari 599 GTB Fiorano, a tall masculine figure dressed in a well-pressed designer suit and European dress shirt makes his way towards you and your girl waiting for the bus. The reflection of the sun off his unimaginably expensive shades catches you off-guard, blinding your vision for a brief moment. When you look back, your girl is ecstatically giving him a big hug and kiss on the cheek combo. Okay, let's stop right here. Regardless of how ridiculously exaggerated this scenario is, you should be able to feel completely comfortable in your own skin at the time of such an occurrence. The greatest misconception known to guys is that looks and money alone will get the ladies. From this belief, what do most guys go and do? They work hard to become that doctor, lawyer, accountant, business owner, etc to handle their problem with women by buying them lavish gifts. It's awesome to have great aspirations in life. But do keep in mind that - It's not the money that attracts women; it's the drive and ambition. Once money comes into play, the guy is instantly categorized as the Provider type. A girl who would usually put out on the first few dates is now "not that type of girl." What happens to that guy when someone wealthier comes along? It's a game you cannot win. For the gifted few of us who have ridiculously good looks, kudos and congratulations. But unfortunately, women are not wired for attraction based on physique alone. It is an insignificant factor. The great Casanova himself wasn't too physically appealing at all. I see great looking (and wealthy) guys out at the bars and nightclubs all the time. Without that charm and conversational skills, they simply become a tease to women. Instead of having choice in women, they wait around until women approach them. Shortly after though, you will see the girls leave them in utter disappointment. The Good "Friend" This is your average frustrated chump who hasn't figure out how to game girls yet. He will listen to your girl for hours on end complain about her life and relationship woes with the subtlest communications that he would treat her better. The only positive response he will ever get from your girl though is "aww, you're such a good friend." Offering rides to anywhere and everywhere at anytime, this guy's time is more worthless than a homeless guy in the streets of Manhattan. Let her vent to him. Going into my first relationship, I was as jealous as you could possibly imagine. I'd check her e-mail, phone, AIM conversation logs, and even comments she would leave on her friend's blogs. I was obsessive and overly possessive about her. I'd get jealous over every guy she would interact with; even the nice waiters at restaurants I would take her out to. I'd criticize her for being flirty. And get paranoid that she was cheating on me. I was essentially wrapping her up in a nice little present for the next guy to take her away from me. Her rationale would've been: "Well, he thinks I'm doing it anyways." And it happened; self-fulfilled prophecy. Jealousy communicates insecurity. The root of this feeling comes from a fear of loss and lack of value. Repeat that to yourself. Jealousy communicates insecurity. The root of this feeling comes from a fear of loss and lack of value. As a quality gentleman, do you really want to be communicating this to your partner? Occupy your spare time by improving yourself and social circle. Be confident in your girl's ability to decide who the better man is. If she fails and picks some random chump, that is entirely her loss. And it's time for you to move onto better things. Trust your girl; have faith.
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Kim
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She should be: Fun. Playful. Adventurous. Sexually adventurous. Sensual. Affectionate. Caring. Loyal. Responsible. Decisive. Well-mannered. Cultured. Fashionable. Sophisticated. Confident. Positive. Independent. Non-possessive. Non-jealous. Non-judgmental. Open-minded. Understanding. Etc. All fantastic traits which make for a great life partner. One who you could most definitely enjoy traveling the world with. Thanks for letting the world know how u think of me. =) |
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