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2007
| Confident Girls |
| Written by Will | |||
| Thursday, 22 November 2007 | |||
 I prefer girls who are confident and have a game of their own. They can carry themselves without the need or addictive desire for external validation. They got their shit together. Yes, confidence is driven by both internal and external factors. But, internalized self-assurance is undoubtedly the stronger of the two. Your ego is a societal construct from external feedback, and should not be relied upon as a primary source of confidence. It should only be there to compliment you. As you develop yourself by gaining certainty of your capabilities and ease with the unknown, your humble self-esteem is what will truly empower you. A girl of high self-confidence is best to be engaged directly. The direct approach uses techniques which are congruent with displaying genuine interests, persisting with absolute certainty, and coming from a position of authority. With uniform levels of confidence, value will be naturally and mutually created. The indirect approach uses techniques congruent with displaying false disinterest, allowing the girl to seek validation from you, and manipulating the simple laws of attraction. This imbalance of confidence causes one to supplicate for external validation, thus preventing any real value from being created. If she is truly internally validated, she will care less to try and impress you. It's difficult to build a trusting relationship with the absence of sincerity. So as always, keep things genuine.
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| Confident girls are rare and the ones are truly confidence don't like to showcase their qualifications because they feel like they don't need to. What you will find most of the is insecure girls hiding behind heavy makeup/designer bags/boyfriends mom, dad, friends picked for her. Good luck finding one! |
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