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Written by Will
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Monday, 29 September 2008 |
Krystal, the girl of your dreams. You met her when you were only 17 and a freshman in college. Not only did you share each other's virginity, but you had even planned a family together. Two kids, a dog, and maybe even a cat in Southern Califor-ni-yay. Medium sized family house, the yard would be yours while she would take care of the garden. Your lives were so well connected until she decided to go abroad for her last semester. All of a sudden she changed. The last incoming call from her was over a week ago. And the last time you called her foreign cell phone, some dude picked up laughing hysterically calling you a "chode." With not much going on in your life, you cry yourself to sleep every night as you wait for her calls. Winter break, she's coming home! You arrive at the airport with a bouquet of flowers. But when she arrives, she doesn't even seem that happy to see you. What the hell happened?
Relationships end for one reason or another. And if you didn't see it coming, you're already at fault. From loss of romance, excitement, sense of security, incompatible goals, differing lifestyles.. the list goes on. There's no need for you to dwell too deep onto why it had occurred. Just go look in the mirror. It's time to reform yourself. Learn from your mistakes and move on forward. Plan for the next release of the new you: Version 2.0. The more ambitious, confident, charming, healthy, intelligent, sexy, and attractive you. If your plan is to win her back, drowning in your own pool of tear and saliva while shuffling through your old pictures together isn't going to work. Keep yourself occupied. Focus on your career. Watch empowering movies. Read some books. Take a class. Go to the gym. Reconnect with old friends. Establish new ones. And just live well. The world exists because of you.
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