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Written by Will
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Monday, 15 December 2008 |
There she stands, in the midst of the ambient lounge lighting and shuffling crowd of average girls all over. Dressed to kill and the swagger of a world-renowned celebrity. Your esteem lingers with self-doubt and contemplation of your approach. Without much further thought, you forcefully walk over with your newly adopted 1-second-rule. Is she alone? No. You continue on by introducing yourself to her. With a warm smile and graceful eye contact, she listens. But before you even get to the end of your first line, her friends have pulled her away - to the bar, the dance floor, another table, the restroom. You've been officially: cock-blocked!
It's too often I see this happen. The carrot on a stick. The caged ultraviolet light. The aroma of artisan cheese on a harmless piece of wood. In this case, the opportunity to meet attractive women. Trust me, they do not come alone. And if they did, something is terribly wrong. You are not playing against her. You are playing against everyone else in her world. The boyfriend. Her girlfriends. Win the hearts of everyone around her, and hers will come naturally. Start by introducing yourself to her group. Move slowly. And take your time to understand the logistics. How does everyone know each other? What is everyone's relationship situation? It's not a survey. Socialize. Be friendly. Now that you know she has a boyfriend, her friends will feel more comfortable with leaving you two alone. Time to put on your A game!
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