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Written by Will
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Monday, 11 February 2008 |
On a night out with his girlfriend and friends, Paul is introduced to a girl who seems very familiar to him. Casually and completely on a platonic basis, he inquires about her past and where she had grown up. Interestingly enough, they went to the same high school and then really start to kick it off; talking about past teachers and the biggest gossip of their sophomore year. Paul's girlfriend notices them smiling and breaks in to rudely introduce herself as his girlfriend and takes him away. She's appalled. In fact, she slaps Paul as hard as she could and tells him to fuck off as she goes to intimately dance with some desparate looking dudes on the dance floor. Paul's quite confused and doesn't know what to do. He apologizes to his girlfriend and tells her he will never talk to that girl ever again. Seriously?! Yeah, there are girlfriends like that.
Firstly, it's important to appreciate femininity. They are emotional and will act upon their emotions. They may say or do some really irrational things based on their emotions. Stay steady through the storm. Be non-reactive to bad behavior. Don't tolerate it though. Address it calmly when they are in a more receptive state. Otherwise, it's like talking to a brick wall. This itself is a test on your manhood to see how well you can handle a girl. When the timing is right, be sure to award good behavior by providing sincere genuine compliments to show your appreciation. This is very important, as it will show that you have standards in people. And at the same time, it will subconsciously communicate to her a way of getting your positive attention. If you don't like something about her, it's impossible to change her. So don't bother trying to change someone. But, it is possible for them to have a change of heart. Over time and on their own self-realization. We can only hope.
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